I started this blog…as so many do…to share my thoughts and insights about an important part of my life with my husband: male chastity. Yes, there are other blogs out there with lots of good information and I certainly recommend them, but I also think I have a slightly different perspective on some of these issues, so I believe I will add new information to the discussion and not repeat what’s already out there. Time will tell if I am correct.

About Us

We are a happily married couple–we celebrated our 32nd wedding anniversary in June, 2010. My husband is 57 and I am 55. We live in a small city in the northeast United States. For the purposes of this blog, I have adopted two pseudonyms: Dev for me, from Devoted Lover–because I am, he is, and we are. I am calling my husband Ab. That comes from a long-standing nickname. My husband was born on the feast day of St. Anthony Abbott. When we were first married, we nicknamed his cock “Little Abbott” and the name has stuck all these years. So we are Dev and Ab and very pleased to meet you.

The Name of the Blog

The key is on my nipple ring–the key to the Master lock that is holding my husband in chastity. I read lots of blogs where the woman/wife/keyholder would wear the key on a chain “nestled between her breasts.” Well, I have pierced nipples so why not use that jewelry for another purpose? I’ll write more about this in a blog entry, but for now, let’s just say “the key is on my nipple ring”…hidden in plain sight.

Dear Readers…

I hope you enjoy the blog. I will be updating regularly and sharing my thoughts. I welcome comments but those that are abusive or flaming will be moderated. Just so you know.

In devoted love and chastity,